I don't think people truly understand how much it hurts to be cheated on, but having your significant other go as far as making a baby with someone else is a completely different kind of heartbreak. It's not just the cheating. It's knowing that something happened between them that can never be undone. It's knowing that there is now a child involved, and no matter what happens between us, they will always have a connection to each other. That's a pain I wouldn't wish on anybody. What hurts the most is that I was building a life with someone I thought was building one with me. While I was loving him, trusting him, and giving him everything I had, he was making decisions that would forever change my life without ever considering how badly they would destroy me. I didn't just lose trust. I lost the security I thought I had in my relationship. I lost the ability to look at our future the same way.