i hung out with a few friends recently and they got drunk. i stayed the night to make sure they were ok, and ended up sleeping in the same bed as one of the guys (im a girl). through the night he would keep inching towards me and at one point started to spoon me. i was frozen in that moment, tho before i had told him repeatedly to move away. i got up when I felt his hand go into my pants. i shouldve just slept on the floor. and hes a really good friend, i see him like a brother and he didnt seem that drunk at first. i found out someone took photos of us in the same bed too, and i dont know how to feel about it. all i could do that night was freeze, i could barely sleep that night. i feel like its my fault, ive joked with people about it (that he mustve thought i was the other guys), but i feel it in my gut, its like the dread never left.