why would people ever leave someone out of a friend group or make them feel like they don't belong or not giving them any attention while they were around you for months and you didnt give them attentions and now that they're not there, now you suddenly ask why theyre not there????? like how fucking slow are humans to realize that someone is growing distant or not in a good place in their life? and no maybe the person doesn't wanna fucking tell someone how they feel cuz they already feel like a burden?