You are trained to work on cars. I get that it's not what you do for a living and it's not, like, a passion. But you are trained in it. We both know you also derive a little joy from having helped someone with their car when they are desperate. SO -- despite the fact that I know it's not something you actively WANT to be doing on a Monday night -- can we both just admit that you're going to go help our son with his car situation? Can we skip the part where you hmm and haw about whether or not you’re going to help him install the part he just bought? It feels like it would be easier to just admit you're going to help, get out there and help, and jump to the part where you can feel that joy that comes from bailing someone out of a jam. Don't spend all afternoon weighing the pros and cons. You're going to help him. We both know it.