am i selfish for wanting people to care about me? i’ve been friends with 3 people for about 3-4 years now, they hold a special place because to me, close friends are very hard for me to make cause people have already formed their respective groups, or they just never really bothered, but i feel like they’ve been drifting off, like i understand that it’s inevitable as we grow up, but i try to keep up with them and talk to them when they say stuff or when they feel sad, but when i say smth, they never respond (unless i directly say smth ), like i’m invisible. it kinda makes me feel like they don’t really care about me until i talk to them. i’ve especially been understanding more about loneliness lately and how much it affects me, which is actually a lot as well as my own issues this year that i speak about to feel better, but no one wants to listen to what i want to say unless it benefits them, lwky i feel like it adds on with how my family doesnt notice my mental state too lol