The other day we were getting ready to go and then I noticed that my fiances mood changed and I thought i did something so I asked if he was okay and he said yea but still sounded bothered but I let it go cause he said he was fine and then after we left the house he said that he doesnt like that im wearing sneakers with my outfit and that it doesnt look good. So I got quiet and upset all day and later on he asked if we were okay and i told him how that mafe me feel insecure and he said that it's just his opinion and I shouldn't take it personally and that if I dressed nice he wouldn't tell me anything. And later on I brought it up again and said how thats mean and it makes me feel insecure and he said it's my problem that he doesnt tell me how to feel.