I'm going through some family drama, and it's making me lose my mind. Basically, my dad wanted to get some new bookshelves, and he immediately said I'm helping him, without asking if I even wanted to. I didn't want to, and I asked him if he had someone else who can help him. He said he didn't, and then I said I don't want to. He responded with "Why, you're not doing anything tomorrow." He ended up getting some movers to do it, but now my family is pissed at me because I said I don't wanna drive 2 hours north and do manual labor for no fucking reason. I'm losing my mind here. Am I in the wrong or something? Like why am I the one who's catching shit from everyone, when I didn't want to do it in the first place and got voluntold that I had to do it? I feel like I'm losing my mind here. Seriously I didn't do anything wrong and everyones pissed at me