Recently broke up with my partner of almost 3yrs. Things were stagnant and I found out he couldn't really love me in the way I needed as a girlfriend. I had my needs and I just kept forgiving him because I thought I just needed to be understanding and things will get better. He admitted that he always felt like he wasn't ready and that he was numb to love. It sounded a bit ridiculous to me because he was the one who wanted to court me. He didn't really put in much effort in our relationship, only at first ig. I had built up resentment because of the dissapointments. I couldn't handle it anymore then decided to open up about what I felt yesterday. We talked and I realized he probably didn't really love me as his girlfriend. I began to dislike him these last few weeks and I really think I felt out of love. I didn't really feel hurt when we broke up because I love him. I was probably holding on just because I'm scared of losing the bond I got used to. Any advice how to overcome it