Ok since we're talking about family. My own dad literally told me before to go kill myself. I kid you not. And alot more I won't say. Mom will try and defend him no matter what he does. He's your dad I get told. I highly doubt any of theirs said such things. That's why I'm numb to my own. I have an Uncle that was verbally emotionally and I believe physically abusive to their kid (my cousin). Ive heard stories of him chasing my cousin with a hammer going gd you ill _ill you .... whatever else. Karma or not they my cousin ended up dying in a car crash. They grieved so much especially my aunt. IDK if it's passed down in genes to be awful to your kids or what. Maybe it was just my cousin's time who knows idk. All I know there's a history of aggression and some physical abuse in my family and I don't like it at all.