There's someone in my friend group who I actually hate so bad but everyone else likes them( I believe) like I have never heard this person say something positive and anytime I put out a message to make plans over the holidays they suddenly have to complain they saw someone they find annoying at the cafe they're at like yeah babes that's going to happen you heard her talking about moving their and also moved there a year after it's a small place wtf did you think was going to happen. And I get it venting to friends is chill and nice to know what's going on in others lives however when its the only thing you ever do it gets tedious especially when the things you complain about you do nothing to help yourself in doing or actively making it worse.