My woke take is that people make fun of sexualizing/fetishizing femboys as a way to indirectly be sexist towards women because the punchline is just that a man is feminine or could be mistaken for being female,,, and on the flip side when people try to hype up muscular women or say they want to be dominated they follow it up with saying things like “I’ll be the one cooking and cleaning/I’ll listen to whatever she says” which implies that they see women normally as submissive and meant to be upholding traditional norms UNLESS they appear “manlier” by their physique Just my take though