if i say i am sad that my friends foster kitten is being adopted, mainly because i will miss him a lot, how is that wrong? i dont understand why my friends went to say "be happy, look on the bright side, look at the larger picture, why are you focused on yourself". i am of course happy that the kitten is being adopted. why do my friends have to morally correct me every single time i say how i feel? and this is every single time. i don't even feel safe to share how I feel with them anymore