I am a married mom of 3. My oldest hates me because of my husband, my younger two live with me still. My current husband is a police officer. I’m a CNA at the hospital. He works 3-4 12 hr shifts a week and I’m currently working 6 12 hr shifts a week. Tell me why I’m the one getting talked down to for not washing his uniform or for not having dinner done or not wanting to cook dinner. I’m expected to come home, cook, clean, do laundry fold and put away laundry, and then still wake up and go to work the next day. Then when he’s home I have to listen to him complain there’s nothing to eat because he refuses to tell me what he wants me to buy for him because “you know what I like” even though the things he likes are currently already in the house. If he doesn’t eat while at work it becomes my fault. If he doesn’t eat before work it is my fault. If he doesn’t eat after work it’s my fault. Everything really just comes down to being my fault while he gets to relax