I feel guilty for my type in women. I personally find curvier or plumper women to be attractive, but sometimes I feel like I'm objectifying women just for having this type or I'm fetishising them because im into chubbier girls. It doesn't help that I'm addicted to porn which I'm afraid has influenced my type. I dont want to see women as just an object but I also dont want be ashamed in physical things I find attractive. Like I do have personality traits I find attractive like good humor or being down to earth or more assertive, but I feel like physicality matters more and that scares me. I dont want to make people feel bad for their body type. I dont want to objectify anyone and I dont want to fetishise anyone.
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