so tired of constang heteronormativity and traditional gender roles in BL. why does the bottom always have to be shorter and slimmer than the top?? like from the skull size to neck girth to limb thickness, everything is ridiculously smaller. why are the bottom's hands always drawn to look super feminine when he's also a man?? yes, men can have slender hands, but 90% of the time bottoms have them. and why are bottoms always made to look. shiny??? like shiny elbow, knees, and asses??? lmao no one irl is shiny in any of those areas?? no offense but so many BL manga/manhwa/manhua artists need to brush up on male anatomy. and don't shy away from drawing male couples who have similar body types. enough with the 7 foot top and 5' 4" bottom. oh and enough bi erasure and the "i'm exclusively gay for my male lover" bs. that shit pops up in manga so much i think i'm going to pop a blood vessel. there is no need to so strongly clarify that you aren't gay when you're a character in a GAY STORY.