i feel so content in my relationship except for the fact that my partner is just so awful at staying on top of things and planning things, it feels like it always comes down to me. im not sure how to go about it because we have spoken about it so many times and i konw he is tryig and he is in therapy for neurodivergence which is affecting it but it means often times things dont get booked in or planned and we end up not being able to do them, i feel like i end up having to hold on to things to make sure they get done and when i say to him i need you to do this he will try and do it immediately but thats not the point it's about the burden thats on me. we've been long distance for 3 years and i feel like whenever we talk about it he always says its a testament to me but that doesnt make it better. i feel like we've had this conversation a million times and i dont know if im just viewing it wrong or if he just cant change or what but this is the only real issue i have but its frustrating