i don't understand why sometimes people would just say things to people and then be confused why that person is upset over it. like what do you mean you're telling me not to go out when i've gotten prior permission to do so, have planned out the day, and am actively getting ready for it on the day itself just because you think it's a waste of time and that i can just do it at home? i am an adult, i have things i want to do alone without the family or a sibling tailing after me but no. no. no. no. i can't do that because the world is a horrifying place for a woman to be alone in and all i can do is just do what you want me to do and be okay with it. i want to go to the city, i want to shop, i want to indulge, i want to be a girl for heaven's sake but i can't when you spoil my mood for wanting those things. then you wonder why i'm a homebody. why i don't have many friends. why i have such low self-esteem. because you can't stop yourself from commenting.