im so fucking done walking on eggshells trying to be a perfect good person to have a perfect image. it feels forced on me by my girlfriend. she cares so much about how we appear rather than how we are, she will be the sweetest to anyone except me and nitpick at every little mannerism or thing i do, then claim we shouldnt change ourselves. any time i have a problem, it comes back to me, any time she has a problem, it comes back to me. there is no credibility and her ability to manipulate and gaslight literally everyone around her is unbelievable. shes a mixture of nice and "logical" to the point where even if you challenge her logic she will act confused and then be like "why are we arguing about this". ironically i have no words.
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