Go find someone capable to support you instead of some guy halfway across the world who can only give you some word of comfort. We live in a world where we need more than words. Physical, emotional and financial wellbeing is more important than some guy across the continent who barely even meets the emotional part. The physical and financial is not even there. You want to build a life with someone you have to be smart about it. If your car breaks down and you don’t have money you have to talk to your spouse for help. How are you going to ask someone not even in your country to help you when the time zone, currency and laws are different. He doesn’t even speak fluent English. All he could do is offer some words like “are you okay, it’s going to be fine, you’ll get through this” While he’s not even helping with the situation. Get you a man who will help go get and help pay for a rental car and actually help you through-out the process. Being there in person matters more than a few words.