Also, you have the financial predatoriness of marriage and kids. They're like 18 year lottery tickets, plus fucking one if not two tax deductions if not straight refunds. I used to hear women when I was living in a bad ghetto in my city, just really being loud and no one caring or saying anything, how she was explicitly looking for a man to get her pregnant to get child support to live off of, and the other one wanting to one up with child support PLUS marriage, ie spousal support only. That's how they viewed marriage and kids. Ain't NO way in fucking BLUE hell I'M gonna do that EVER!! The closest was my ex-fiancee. And that ended very maliciously and with hostility. And the sad part, is that you get targeted advertisements, as if it can read your mind much less your life at present, and it's AI girls who brag they are whores and will never say no and do anything for you and creepy shit like that. Then lonely men marrying said AI, most famously a Japanese man. I'm not doing it.