38yo single father to a boy six months old. She dumped me (and the kid and all her responsibilities) 8 weeks after giving birth. She said "This is too much" and just left. So im raising him alone, he is a sweet kid and we manage allright. My aunt can watch the baby 1 eve/week so i can go out with my friends and have a couple of beers (my parents are dead, my sister doesnt care - thats all the help i can get). I met this girl, we talked, explained 100% honestly my situation and "Oh this is so sweet" and she agreed to a date. Turns out she was sent by my ex to check on me, she dropped the "just a couple of months and going out with other girls" line. This really made me sad and angry. What the hell, you dumped everything and now you stalking? To what depth is she gonna go to jeopardize my life?