My partner made me so angry. To preface: We’ve have had some trust issues in the past, so he has given me permission to look through his phone. I haven’t looked through since everything went down but he was acting weird with it so I looked tonight. We have a rule where he doesn’t talk negatively about me to his family members. Tonight he broke that rule. My brother died last week. We had a hard relationship, I had cut him off earlier this year. But he was still my brother and I loved him. So anyway, I didn’t like the way his mom spoke to me. She was rude and mean. My partner then tells his brother “she’s being irrational. She’s been on edge since her brother passed, but I don’t get it bc they didn’t have a relationship.” Um EXCUSE ME?????? Yes we did, it was a long and complicated and hard relationship, which is why I’m so upset about him passing!!!! The guilt, the sadness, the loss of someone I cared about regardless of the relationship we had???? I am angry and disappointed