can you stop being so frustrating? ur my parents, dammit, why cant u just understand me? I appreciate that u love me, that u care for me that u do all the stuff parents need to do. I understand i can be problematic since our personalities are so different. but why do u keep yelling then tell me not to yell? why do you give me the cold shoulder but tell me to communicate better? why do lecture me to be formal and respectful towards you but force me to be close and intimate with the family? stop being so frustrating. xoxo...