I hate that people love my abuser so much and keep telling me that i need to forgive him and be nice to him. I had a family member in tears when i said that i resent this abuser and will never forgive him. Like? Where were those tears when i told you about the him hitting me and screaming and cursing? Always making excuses for him! Shout out to everyone who doesn't tell people to forgive abusers and show kindness to them but instead validates the resentment. Yes some people find peace in that but some like me don't. I am full of resentment
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