My inlaws are very manipulative towards my husband and have said some very hurtful things about me. I have swallowed so much but now that grandkids are involved they are asking to see them every month and I can not deal with the stress of having people over and staying with us, taking up our weekend family time and being portrayed as the villain to my husband. He does not want to upset them but he can not defend me or stick to the boundaries I have. I have text proof of this and I feel like im the bad guy when no one really knows what inlaws have said to my husband.