I express my opinion and it’s back talk. When I express that it’s “Not what you say but how you say it” and I was saying at the same tone as her. It doesn’t make sense. It’s like I’m expected to be the adult but I can’t have any privileges. With privilege comes responsibility right? I have ALL of the responsibility and I get no privileges. I do my homework. I clean my room. I do EVERYTHING they ask for without complaining and I get the same privileges as them. They complain all the time they chastise me for the things I do wrong but don’t see the things I’m getting right. I try. I do. If I tell them that , “well then try harder” I think I DESERVE to have and actual conversation with them. It’s not fair. “Life isn’t fair” then you be fair. If life won’t then you can. Start by actually GIVING MY PRIVILEGES FOR THE RESPONSIBILTY I TAKE? It’s just not FAIR I want to scream And now my bsf is off and on even tho we’ve known each other forever. It’s NOT FAUR