I am carrying almost all of the mental load between me and my significant other. I am responsible for managing the chores (weekly cleaning, mowing, shopping, cooking, etc) I have a full time job and have a second job as well. My SO is responsible for getting the kids ready for school in the morning but they are getting older at this point so there is not much to do there. It annoys me that I have to take all of this on and when I try to explain it they say they get it and do nothing or they say I just need to always be busy and its just the way I am. I am reaching a breaking point where I don't want to interact with them its frustrating and I feel I am on my own to deal with it.