why does everyone love my brother? he gets bad grades, gets in trouble, is incredibly disrespectful, inconsiderate, etc. and he hasn’t even done anything that is a huge accomplishment, but he gets rewards. he gets hugs. he gets told that people are proud of him. i get all A’s and B’s, i listen to the adults around me, i never get in trouble, im extremely aware of the people around me and im considerate of them. i’ve won sports awards and school awards and i get nothing. i get no hugs, i get no reward, i get no one saying they’re proud of me, i get a “good job.” my mom doesn’t brag about me at all but she brags about my brother. she tells everyone how i start arguments and how i have a “decent head on my shoulders” she tells everyone about my brothers accomplishments and how great he is, but never tells anyone about me. i just wanna be treated how i deserve to be treated. why is it to hard for my mom to love me the same?