My bf and I are video gamers, we both love it however, it feels like he prioritizing gaming with his friend group than me. We agree to make plans but he just doesn't follow through or just ignores them to spend like 10hrs a day playing with his mates. We don't do quality time anymore (which is a love language of mine) and he just seems to want to make them happy rather than play with me. When we do play, we can only do it for about three hours then he claims he is too tired and his head hurts but he will happy play for the rest of the day with the boys. It feels like fwb or roommates rather than bf and gf at this rate.