hello, I've seen people doing this so I'm going to do it. i don't know if I want to date, like at all. I've identified as aroace forever, and I've been starting to identify as both gay and aroace when I realized I definitely do feel attraction to guys. but I don't know if I want to date, some days I really want it and other days I just feel uncomfortable. I don't know if I genuinely don't want it or if I'm so insecure about myself that I can't believe someone could genuinely love me for the rest of their life. -deer anon