Okay so I've been in a relationship with this guy now going on 2 years and im a girl. Something has felt off with him since the beginning but instead of trusting my intuition I just told myself that maybe im just over thinking things and its just all in my head. But here I am 2 years later and things still dont make no sense to me. He doesn't act like he is attracted to me and that within its self has had me confused since the beginning because every other relationship I've ever been in , the guys always tell me im beautiful and are the first ones to initiate touching and loving on each other. But not this guy. Its so bad that at one point I started to feel like maybe im just not that pretty or like im the problem. Until I went through his phone one night and seen that before me and even in the beginning of our relationship he has been with men. He has even paid men to come to his house and have intercourse with him. He even has a grinder account. Is he one of those DL men?