You would normally think fam would and should have your back and validate you. Not mine. They'd rather defend a black sheep white. In other words always say I'm wrong in how I feel 98% of the time and defend the other person who's in the wrong. They don't comprehend what I go through or feel. Why would I tell them how I feel if it wasn't true? I don't think they comprehend how it feels to be kept awake and thumped out of bed for months. I notice all their behaviors. I was told "oh they don't do it on purpose". Hmm really? Ok. Well months on end they would creak the floor EVERYWHERE they walked above us in every room. Funny thing how that's pretty much stopped but it's loud scuffling and thumping the majority of nights and mornings. If it's "not on purpose" why'd they blow a confetti bomb out their window on OUR walk? The morning I saw it and opened the door it felt like an immediate act of aggression. I'm not stupid. They hate us yet fam would rather deny everything sweep under therug