im a junior in college and i made this friend during first year. we have a lot in common and have similar worldviews. i noticed as we become closer, he used to be close to my suitemates, both girls. but as were hangin out it "seemed" like he was spending more time w/ me than them and this continued into summer and second year. we were texting a lot, hangin out, watchin stuff in my dorm. and im not an idiot, so i was worried whether he liked me or vice versa, bc i heard that he used to like one of my suitemates. anyway, during second year i fell into a rut: was depressed, isolated myself, missed some classes for about a month. during this time ig he got closer to my roommate (he was still going to our dorm), which was fine but it's like they sped ran their relationship so now in junior year it's like she's the closest to him and im a third wheel. it feels like he has a pattern + i fell into it + he's onto the next. im kinda hating him; he's still my friend tho. idk i hate this