I thought my mom was my best friend but I’m starting to realize that she might just only like me for my usefulness. She’s told me in the past multiple times that she would disown me when I did something that she found upsetting when it wasn’t really at all but me just putting boundaries and trying to be myself. She gets like that a lot when I bring up or hint at not really wanting to do certain things for or go with what she wants. I’m literally an adult to, like I don’t even have to live with her, I just need to get a job before I can afford to leave. She’s moving to a new house and I don’t really want to go because she only really cares if I go to do everything for her. We even have to make a long drive to this new house and we drove already a few times there and back and it really pisses me off that she makes me drive almost the whole way and when I get tired and ask her to drive she’ll say she’s tried and can’t drive and then say do want me to fall asleep while driving.