I'm so annoyed. Like, why can't they just move on already?? Why does my boyfriend have to reach out to his ex to update her on his life?? And about his ex, you're being way too problematic. It's been a year since she dumped you, you were never even her boyfriend, yet you overreact so much. How dare you blame him for what was happening in your life back then? You both have your own lives, so he doesn't owe you an explanation for everything. What, are you going to threaten to hurt yourself just to guilt-trip him? Girl, you need to remember that you still think like that.