how do you make friends in your 30s? i never see advice i can actually take. it's always things like meet people at work (i have many work friends but every time i make plans outside of work theyre rejected). or go to meetings/clubs that interest you (they all happen during my work day or too late at night; i cant go places at 9pm on a thursday when i cant drive it adds hours of travel time). i don't have money to join most things anyway, and going places consistently is very hard if you can't afford to. not to mention im responsible for my partner's mental health keeping me tied to home. i don't drink and i don't do well in crowds. so how do you make friends in your 30s cause im starting to think the answer is that i don't
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