If you are being hurt by them…remember this. It’s not you, it’s them. They saw something in you that they lost. So they got mad and decided to hurt you because they don’t want you to have it when they don’t. They are hurting so they think hurting you just like they are hurting will heal themselves own pain. It doesn’t- it probably will for a while…but eventually they feel guilty and can’t apologize. Or they don’t see they hurt you because their abuser didn’t see the pain they caused hurting. So don’t worry….you did nothing wrong to them. They just desperately need that hug they never got. —M.P