I can’t share my entire friend group with my partner. It sucks. Like if I want to rant about how frustrating they can be sometimes, I can’t because they’ll just hear about it. I can’t help but think they specifically chose to get close to my best friend so that I couldn’t talk to them. I mean, my friend is great but tends to overshare sometimes and my partner is really good at getting information out of people. My partner asked me about something I’d specifically told my friend and thought was private but apparently he knew about it. I feel betrayed by both of them. It’s worse when my partner specifically tries to back me into a corner - my best friend lent me a guitar so I could learn to play without having to buy one, but when my partner came back from his work trip, he was being all weird and asking how much I paid for the guitar and how come he didn’t see it get delivered… but my friend had dropped it off to our house while my partner was literally inside before the trip so…