I visited my sister last week. She dumped two heavy mental issues on me. First…she told one of her friends my financial situation & how she took me on a trip (which I paid my flight & food), my sister claimed to have lost said friend because they felt if a person is on disability they shouldn’t be able to go on trips. Gifts or won or saved up for. I’m pissed my sister told my business so freely. It was supposed to make her look good but seemed to back fire. Second… we had an uncle that was terminally ill, he & I hadn’t talked in many years. He wrote to me (I never received it). Apparently he was asking me to forgive him, of what I had to guess. I forgave him for what I thought divided us, I was wrong on that. My sister told me he wanted forgiveness for being a racist (I have a biracial daughter). If I had known that was what he was wanting idk if I would’ve handed over so easily. I feel he should’ve asked my daughter for it too. But why did my sister tell me all this?