I'm very frustrated right now. My mom was going on about studying well, getting a good job, dreaming big and enjoying our life. I get it, so why did the parts that seem so specific that it sounds like venting have to be necessary?? Like I'm sorry my cousins aren't doing their part in helping the family, my dad being too generous to others that don't give back, or that other people we know just spend their money willy-nilly to unimportant things. I get that you don't want us to be like them but couldn't you have said that same message without making us your therapist or something. It's like 10 am, we're just trying to eat breakfast bro.