I’m trapped in this situation where I’m damned if I do, damned if I don’t. If I admit to finding out he’s lied to me, I also have to take accountability for spying on him to even know he’s been lying to me. If I don’t, I’ll resent him over it forever.. I can’t get it off my mind and maybe I’m a coward for keeping it to myself. He’s the type to get overly defensive. It will pivot to me not trusting.. even though I was proven right not to trust him. I’m already dealing with so much right now and this is just causing me so much anxiety and stress. I would’ve been better off ignorant of the situation.
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