After a mass shooting, my friend completely switched up on me. I have a solid friend group of 4 and one person in the group named J went on vacation. While she was on vacation, the other two and me went out. While out, there was a mass shooting where one of our friends was shot (she lived and thankfully got to have a full recovery). Ever since J came back from vacation, she has picked so many little arguments with me and said hurtful things. She told me it was my bad luck that caused her to be shot and that if she was there it wouldn't have happened. She has since never reached out to me first. I have to be the one to text her to see what she's up to. I'm so irritated and upset about all of this so there's been a significant decrease in our texting. I know she's experiencing this grief too, but I've had it much worse! I completely thought our friend was dying in the moment and she's only known about it since she was okay. I just don't know why she's spiting me in all of this.