my (23f) boyfriend (26m) of 3 years wants to move in together but only if we move to big city 5 hours away with 2 or 3 other of his content creator friends. i dont know how i feel about it. immediately i am repulsed as they my bf & 1 of them have lived together 1 yr ago and they would showcase their living situation on their socials (they all work as influencers) & it was just so bad. i cant imagine myself living with 3 other men in a FRAT like house. it sounds so disgusting. on top of that.. THEY ARE NOT MY FRIENDS. i made my 1st friend in their influencer circle and my bf's "friend" spread rumors to his friends that i was "dating someone he knew" and how i was essentially a whore for having a male friend. like what??? why would i want to live with someone like that? why do i want to be the ONLY woman in a house full of men?? i am fine with him and i living together especially since we would be paid enough to support ourselves. but. im just so conflicted.