my bestfriend and i always find ourselves in a trio with another friend of ours, at first it's fun and obviously all three of us but then they start hanging out without me till they don't contact or reach out to me anymore few weeks or months later that same bestfriend gets ditched and comes back running to me, i was gonna say i welcome her with open arms out of pity but no, it's only because i feel lonely though i'm not the real selfish one here, right? this whole thing has happened four times already, in the span of 3 years