What if the pain we’re feeling, the pain that’s wrenching our hearts, is nothing in their eyes? How long are we allowed to grieve something before our feelings stop being valid? Is there a point where they’ll just say, “Okay, enough now. It wasn’t even that big of a deal”? Don’t ever ask someone why they did all those things, because the answer you’re looking for might never come. They won’t have the answer you need, and you’ll just keep going in circles, asking them again and again, only to end up hurting yourself every time. And one day, they’ll simply say, “Enough. It’s not even that big of a deal.” Because maybe they don’t even know why they did it. They just did it. But hey, they still care about you and want the best for you, right? So I guess you should feel better now. Everything’s fine. Nothing to be upset about.