Why do I have to understand my mom? Do people not think that I have already done that? Why would I want her to get mad and upset, especially when those emotions will be pushed onto me? I already try so hard to make her happy; I do everything for her so she doesn't have to complain so she doesn'thave to stress. Why am I being told that? I already know; I've been trying to be easy myself so she doesn't have to think of me as an inconvenience. But it seems like me simply existing is too much stress on her.