Me and my partner have always been infatuated with another, I notice his patterns and I notice he is talking less, he's far less interested in what I have to say, doesn't give reassurance from his own will anymore and is far less affectionate. It's eating me alive but we are in a place where its not good or bad its just something he clocks into at the end of the day, says a few words and its that. I ask him to pull more effort and to show me he loves me and its always half assed, his mothers dog just died (for context he made fun of her grief over a "random" dog) and I had a conversation with him telling him I want us to work but he doesn't talk to me anymore, to which he said "im tired, my dog just died" I cant even question that, but I know it doesn't weigh on him at all, I wish he could understand how im feeling but I love him so much we're engaged, going to move in together soon and I really cant live without him, im not even a person without him. I dont know what to do