a few days ago, i told my talking stage that i was uncomfortable with his relationship with his 'girl best friend'. i told him that it was making me upset because they were SO CLOSE and talked to him abt it. he defended himself at first, but then quickly apologized. he then suggested i talk to his girl best friend abt it too, since we've been close friends since we were kids. she was highly offended and hurt, then proceeded to distance herself from him completely. now he's upset that shes being 'dry' with him and partially blames it on me because she was crying and won't talk to her. is this my fault for wanting to clear up and communicate my emotions? because what this is telling me is that i shouldn't open up again since its only going to ruin friendships and relationships.