i think im cursed. or i am the problem. because i have a friend group of 4, and i can admit when im wrong. when someone i care about gets mad at me for saying something insensitive, i can own up and apologize, try to make it right however i can. i know im not perfect, but no one is. so my BEST friend told me she doesnt want to dorm with me, for the sake of her mental health, and because I do "little things that annoy her." So i was hurt. I didnt respond. when a best friend of mine says something that hurts my feelings, whether they meant it or not, I shut down. I didnt want to talk to her. our other friends were backing us too. lets call him tim. Tim backed me, considering i was hurt by what gloria, for instance, said to me about being annoying. mind you, after i put down 150 dollars to dorm with her. amelia, well call her, was backing gloria, through and through, telling me i was blowing it out of proportion. she said since i wont talk to her, gloria doesnt want to be friends anymore.