This is for the person who needs it. You can’t love them, honey. They don’t want you anymore. I know it hurts..I don’t know why they can’t see you, I’m sorry. But, you need to realize crying yourself to sleep every night isn’t helping your frustration. You are a magnificent human being. They can’t see what they lost. You think loving them harder will help, it just fuels a narcissist’s ego. I wish i could tell you what would help…but your best option is to shut off communication. It’s not healthy for you.. what did you do to yourself…? You shouldn’t do that because they don’t want you anymore. It just means God has a much bigger purpose for you. I know it’s hard to believe, but trust me. It’ll be worth the pain.